Three seemingly unrelated events this week led to this column. A friend of mine shocked me when she said that she is so upset with the campaign for President and VP that she might not vote at all. Second, Ghandi's Birthday is coming next week -- October 2nd. I'd been planning to write about Ghandi. Third, here I sit on Friday, after The Debate. Ghandi is flooding my mind more than ever. I keep thinking of his quote: