Sometimes the person you're not into is a really great person.
Let me tell you some things about my ex-fiance. He was funny, and he made me laugh. We cooked dinner together. He was reliable and loyal and never would have cheated on me in a million years. We lit Hanukkah candles together, and we had Passover at his grandma's Miami apartment. We enjoyed playing Taboo and having dinner with our friends. We walked together after work. I cared about him very much.